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I also suggest honestly asking yourself, "How would I feel if a friend of mine was dating my ex?
" In other words, where would you feel comfortable having the line drawn?
Several of my divorced friends in New York City, where I live, described to me that over the years they have been matched up (through introductions, internet dating sites, and serendipity) with potential partners who were once married to someone they knew.
A woman I'm acquainted with is happily married to the ex husband of a former friend of hers.
If you've decided after careful deliberation that it is okay to date the ex of an acquaintance, move forward with care.
Please remember that feelings can easily be hurt on all sides.
Although the couple couldn't be happier today, they pissed off a few folks along the way.Consider taking the high road by addressing the situation directly with the acquaintance prior to getting involved with their ex.(As well as, obviously, addressing the situation directly with the person you want to be dating.) In the case of Brian and Angie, Brian did call his old friend to communicate his intentions.I asked quite a few people this question, and most said they would be okay if their ex was dating an acquaintance.
Everyone said they'd be terribly upset if it was a good friend.First, I suggest assessing the quality of the friendship you currently have with the person's ex.In my opinion, the exes of best friends or really good friends are completely off limits. Why cause pain to someone you care about and who cares about you in return? No one needs this level of drama; life is complex enough.One person figuratively commented, "It's okay if someone near my home dated my ex, but not too close to home." I think this sentiment makes a lot of sense.